Sorry i just hadn't realised that by application you meant openldap. I looked in /var/log/openldap.log but it is completely empty.
I also said in the beginning that 636 is responding in telnet, that didn't mean that it is actually working. As for iptables (there is nothing else on that side) here is what i have done:
iptables -S
-P INPUT ACCEPT
-P FORWARD DROP
-P OUTPUT ACCEPT
-N f2b-dovecot
-N f2b-postfix
-N f2b-roundcube
-N f2b-sogo
-N f2b-sshd
-N f2b-sshd-ddos
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 80,443,25,587,110,995,143,993,4190 -j f2b-sogo
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 80,443,25,587,110,995,143,993,4190 -j f2b-postfix
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 80,443,25,587,110,995,143,993,4190 -j f2b-dovecot
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 80,443,25,587,110,995,143,993,4190 -j f2b-roundcube
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 22 -j f2b-sshd-ddos
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 22 -j f2b-sshd
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 80,443,25,587,110,995,143,993,4190 -j f2b-sogo
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 80,443,25,587,110,995,143,993,4190 -j f2b-postfix
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 80,443,25,587,110,995,143,993,4190 -j f2b-dovecot
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 80,443,25,587,110,995,143,993,4190 -j f2b-roundcube
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 22 -j f2b-sshd-ddos
-A INPUT -p tcp -m multiport --dports 22 -j f2b-sshd
-A INPUT -p icmp -m limit --limit 100/sec --limit-burst 500 -j ACCEPT
-A INPUT -p icmp -j DROP
-A INPUT -p udp -m limit --limit 100/sec --limit-burst 500 -j ACCEPT
-A INPUT -p udp -j DROP
-A INPUT -m connlimit --connlimit-above 128 --connlimit-mask 32 -j DROP
-A INPUT -m connlimit --connlimit-above 512 --connlimit-mask 8 -j DROP
-A INPUT -s 94.210.16.163/32 -j ACCEPT
-A INPUT -i venet0 -p tcp -m tcp -m multiport --dports 110,143,389,636,995,3306 -j DROP
-A INPUT -p udp -m udp --dport 500 -j ACCEPT
-A INPUT -p udp -m udp --dport 4500 -j ACCEPT
-A INPUT -p tcp -m tcp --dport 4500 -j ACCEPT
-A f2b-dovecot -j RETURN
-A f2b-dovecot -j RETURN
-A f2b-postfix -s 155.133.82.141/32 -j REJECT --reject-with icmp-port-unreachable
-A f2b-postfix -j RETURN
-A f2b-postfix -j RETURN
-A f2b-roundcube -j RETURN
-A f2b-roundcube -j RETURN
-A f2b-sogo -j RETURN
-A f2b-sogo -j RETURN
-A f2b-sshd -j RETURN
-A f2b-sshd -j RETURN
-A f2b-sshd-ddos -j RETURN
-A f2b-sshd-ddos -j RETURN
iptables -L
Chain INPUT (policy ACCEPT)
target prot opt source destination
f2b-sogo tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports http,https,smtp,submission,pop3,pop3s,imap,imaps,sieve
f2b-postfix tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports http,https,smtp,submission,pop3,pop3s,imap,imaps,sieve
f2b-dovecot tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports http,https,smtp,submission,pop3,pop3s,imap,imaps,sieve
f2b-roundcube tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports http,https,smtp,submission,pop3,pop3s,imap,imaps,sieve
f2b-sshd-ddos tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports ssh
f2b-sshd tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports ssh
f2b-sogo tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports http,https,smtp,submission,pop3,pop3s,imap,imaps,sieve
f2b-postfix tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports http,https,smtp,submission,pop3,pop3s,imap,imaps,sieve
f2b-dovecot tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports http,https,smtp,submission,pop3,pop3s,imap,imaps,sieve
f2b-roundcube tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports http,https,smtp,submission,pop3,pop3s,imap,imaps,sieve
f2b-sshd-ddos tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports ssh
f2b-sshd tcp -- anywhere anywhere multiport dports ssh
ACCEPT icmp -- anywhere anywhere limit: avg 100/sec burst 500
DROP icmp -- anywhere anywhere
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere limit: avg 100/sec burst 500
DROP udp -- anywhere anywhere
DROP all -- anywhere anywhere #conn/32 > 128
DROP all -- anywhere anywhere #conn/8 > 512
ACCEPT all -- 5ED210A3.cm-7-3a.dynamic.ziggo.nl anywhere
DROP tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp multiport dports pop3,imap,ldap,ldaps,pop3s,mysql
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:isakmp
ACCEPT udp -- anywhere anywhere udp dpt:ipsec-nat-t
ACCEPT tcp -- anywhere anywhere tcp dpt:ipsec-nat-t
Chain FORWARD (policy DROP)
target prot opt source destination
Chain OUTPUT (policy ACCEPT)
target prot opt source destination
Chain f2b-dovecot (2 references)
target prot opt source destination
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
Chain f2b-postfix (2 references)
target prot opt source destination
REJECT all -- 155.133.82.141 anywhere reject-with icmp-port-unreachable
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
Chain f2b-roundcube (2 references)
target prot opt source destination
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
Chain f2b-sogo (2 references)
target prot opt source destination
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
Chain f2b-sshd (2 references)
target prot opt source destination
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
Chain f2b-sshd-ddos (2 references)
target prot opt source destination
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere
RETURN all -- anywhere anywhere