Thank you for your replay. i wasn't able to work on my server until today.
So i tried configure SMTP in WP using 2 plugins neither worked, both have a problem connecting to the SMTP server.
one plugin error output:
Test Message Sent
The result was:
bool(false)
The full debugging output is shown below:
object(PHPMailer)#583 (76) {
  ["Version"]=>
  string(6) "5.2.22"
  ["Priority"]=>
  NULL
  ["CharSet"]=>
  string(5) "UTF-8"
  ["ContentType"]=>
  string(10) "text/plain"
  ["Encoding"]=>
  string(4) "7bit"
  ["ErrorInfo"]=>
  string(43) "SMTP Error: Could not connect to SMTP host."
  ["From"]=>
  string(18) "postmaster@mail.ve"
  ["FromName"]=>
  string(10) "TSUN Sites"
  ["Sender"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["ReturnPath"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["Subject"]=>
  string(46) "WP Email SMTP: Test mail to postmaster@mail.ve"
  ["Body"]=>
  string(69) "This is a test email generated by the WP Email SMTP WordPress plugin."
  ["AltBody"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["Ical"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["MIMEBody":protected]=>
  string(70) "This is a test email generated by the WP Email SMTP WordPress plugin.
"
  ["MIMEHeader":protected]=>
  string(338) "Date: Mon, 28 Aug 2017 11:06:42 +0000
To: postmaster@mail.ve
From: TSUN Sites 
Subject: WP Email SMTP: Test mail to postmaster@mail.ve
Message-ID: <623bb5425cdc8c6a3586538c011738b2@sites.ve>
X-Mailer: PHPMailer 5.2.22 (https://github.com/PHPMailer/PHPMailer)
MIME-Version: 1.0
Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8
"
  ["mailHeader":protected]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["WordWrap"]=>
  int(0)
  ["Mailer"]=>
  string(4) "smtp"
  ["Sendmail"]=>
  string(18) "/usr/sbin/sendmail"
  ["UseSendmailOptions"]=>
  bool(true)
  ["PluginDir"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["ConfirmReadingTo"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["Hostname"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["MessageID"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["MessageDate"]=>
  string(31) "Mon, 28 Aug 2017 11:06:42 +0000"
  ["Host"]=>
  string(7) "mail.ve"
  ["Port"]=>
  string(3) "587"
  ["Helo"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["SMTPSecure"]=>
  string(3) "tls"
  ["SMTPAutoTLS"]=>
  bool(true)
  ["SMTPAuth"]=>
  bool(false)
  ["SMTPOptions"]=>
  array(0) {
  }
  ["Username"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["Password"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["AuthType"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["Realm"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["Workstation"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["Timeout"]=>
  int(300)
  ["SMTPDebug"]=>
  bool(true)
  ["Debugoutput"]=>
  string(4) "echo"
  ["SMTPKeepAlive"]=>
  bool(false)
  ["SingleTo"]=>
  bool(false)
  ["SingleToArray"]=>
  array(0) {
  }
  ["do_verp"]=>
  bool(false)
  ["AllowEmpty"]=>
  bool(false)
  ["LE"]=>
  string(1) "
"
  ["DKIM_selector"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["DKIM_identity"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["DKIM_passphrase"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["DKIM_domain"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["DKIM_private"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["DKIM_private_string"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["action_function"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["XMailer"]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["smtp":protected]=>
  object(SMTP)#679 (14) {
    ["Version"]=>
    string(6) "5.2.22"
    ["SMTP_PORT"]=>
    int(25)
    ["CRLF"]=>
    string(2) "
"
    ["do_debug"]=>
    bool(true)
    ["Debugoutput"]=>
    string(4) "echo"
    ["do_verp"]=>
    bool(false)
    ["Timeout"]=>
    int(300)
    ["Timelimit"]=>
    int(300)
    ["smtp_transaction_id_patterns":protected]=>
    array(3) {
      ["exim"]=>
      string(21) "/[0-9]{3} OK id=(.*)/"
      ["sendmail"]=>
      string(29) "/[0-9]{3} 2.0.0 (.*) Message/"
      ["postfix"]=>
      string(35) "/[0-9]{3} 2.0.0 Ok: queued as (.*)/"
    }
    ["smtp_conn":protected]=>
    NULL
    ["error":protected]=>
    array(4) {
      ["error"]=>
      string(0) ""
      ["detail"]=>
      string(0) ""
      ["smtp_code"]=>
      string(0) ""
      ["smtp_code_ex"]=>
      string(0) ""
    }
    ["helo_rply":protected]=>
    NULL
    ["server_caps":protected]=>
    NULL
    ["last_reply":protected]=>
    string(347) "MIA2t�h`H���
�����k7`"��ŧ��v�A���?��Ձf\�F^�&Z��@lz��/�b�d�ئ�a�:�NU-���W(��K!Y%����S�������Q���(EڍL    Z�J���A�LN}�^�=#8�7V��mM�n�n0Ga��q���n-�b�}$�/
��n~2ؙ���yN=J��V�+r@kg�Ջ_�K��~��([ Z���P���-@&��Ь'}��������Z�� ���U:��;�n�F}�MH��ڥo�I����bz��$x���1Ҿops�J���P�`h��"
  }
  ["to":protected]=>
  array(1) {
    [0]=>
    array(2) {
      [0]=>
      string(18) "postmaster@mail.ve"
      [1]=>
      string(0) ""
    }
  }
  ["cc":protected]=>
  array(0) {
  }
  ["bcc":protected]=>
  array(0) {
  }
  ["ReplyTo":protected]=>
  array(0) {
  }
  ["all_recipients":protected]=>
  array(1) {
    ["postmaster@mail.ve"]=>
    bool(true)
  }
  ["RecipientsQueue":protected]=>
  array(0) {
  }
  ["ReplyToQueue":protected]=>
  array(0) {
  }
  ["attachment":protected]=>
  array(0) {
  }
  ["CustomHeader":protected]=>
  array(0) {
  }
  ["lastMessageID":protected]=>
  string(43) "<623bb5425cdc8c6a3586538c011738b2@sites.ve>"
  ["message_type":protected]=>
  string(5) "plain"
  ["boundary":protected]=>
  array(3) {
    [1]=>
    string(35) "b1_623bb5425cdc8c6a3586538c011738b2"
    [2]=>
    string(35) "b2_623bb5425cdc8c6a3586538c011738b2"
    [3]=>
    string(35) "b3_623bb5425cdc8c6a3586538c011738b2"
  }
  ["language":protected]=>
  array(19) {
    ["authenticate"]=>
    string(35) "SMTP Error: Could not authenticate."
    ["connect_host"]=>
    string(43) "SMTP Error: Could not connect to SMTP host."
    ["data_not_accepted"]=>
    string(30) "SMTP Error: data not accepted."
    ["empty_message"]=>
    string(18) "Message body empty"
    ["encoding"]=>
    string(18) "Unknown encoding: "
    ["execute"]=>
    string(19) "Could not execute: "
    ["file_access"]=>
    string(23) "Could not access file: "
    ["file_open"]=>
    string(33) "File Error: Could not open file: "
    ["from_failed"]=>
    string(35) "The following From address failed: "
    ["instantiate"]=>
    string(36) "Could not instantiate mail function."
    ["invalid_address"]=>
    string(17) "Invalid address: "
    ["mailer_not_supported"]=>
    string(25) " mailer is not supported."
    ["provide_address"]=>
    string(54) "You must provide at least one recipient email address."
    ["recipients_failed"]=>
    string(45) "SMTP Error: The following recipients failed: "
    ["signing"]=>
    string(15) "Signing Error: "
    ["smtp_connect_failed"]=>
    string(22) "SMTP connect() failed."
    ["smtp_error"]=>
    string(19) "SMTP server error: "
    ["variable_set"]=>
    string(30) "Cannot set or reset variable: "
    ["extension_missing"]=>
    string(19) "Extension missing: "
  }
  ["error_count":protected]=>
  int(2)
  ["sign_cert_file":protected]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["sign_key_file":protected]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["sign_extracerts_file":protected]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["sign_key_pass":protected]=>
  string(0) ""
  ["exceptions":protected]=>
  bool(true)
  ["uniqueid":protected]=>
  string(32) "623bb5425cdc8c6a3586538c011738b2"
}
The SMTP debugging output is shown below:
2017-08-28 11:06:42    Connection: opening to mail.ve:587, timeout=300, options=array (
                                         )
2017-08-28 11:06:42    Connection: opened
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is ""
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "220 m.mail.ve ESMTP Postfix
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SERVER -> CLIENT: 220 m.mail.ve ESMTP Postfix
2017-08-28 11:06:52    CLIENT -> SERVER: EHLO sites.ve
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is ""
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "250-m.mail.ve
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is "250-m.mail.ve
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "250-PIPELINING
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is "250-m.mail.ve
                                         250-PIPELINING
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "250-SIZE 15728640
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is "250-m.mail.ve
                                         250-PIPELINING
                                         250-SIZE 15728640
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "250-ETRN
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is "250-m.mail.ve
                                         250-PIPELINING
                                         250-SIZE 15728640
                                         250-ETRN
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "250-STARTTLS
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is "250-m.mail.ve
                                         250-PIPELINING
                                         250-SIZE 15728640
                                         250-ETRN
                                         250-STARTTLS
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is "250-m.mail.ve
                                         250-PIPELINING
                                         250-SIZE 15728640
                                         250-ETRN
                                         250-STARTTLS
                                         250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "250-8BITMIME
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is "250-m.mail.ve
                                         250-PIPELINING
                                         250-SIZE 15728640
                                         250-ETRN
                                         250-STARTTLS
                                         250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
                                         250-8BITMIME
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "250-DSN
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is "250-m.mail.ve
                                         250-PIPELINING
                                         250-SIZE 15728640
                                         250-ETRN
                                         250-STARTTLS
                                         250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
                                         250-8BITMIME
                                         250-DSN
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "250 SMTPUTF8
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SERVER -> CLIENT: 250-m.mail.ve
                                         250-PIPELINING
                                         250-SIZE 15728640
                                         250-ETRN
                                         250-STARTTLS
                                         250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
                                         250-8BITMIME
                                         250-DSN
                                         250 SMTPUTF8
2017-08-28 11:06:52    CLIENT -> SERVER: STARTTLS
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is ""
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "220 2.0.0 Ready to start TLS
                                         "
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SERVER -> CLIENT: 220 2.0.0 Ready to start TLS
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP Error: Could not connect to SMTP host.
2017-08-28 11:06:52    CLIENT -> SERVER: QUIT
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $data is ""
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP -> get_lines(): $str is  "MIA2t�h`H���
                                         �����k7`"��ŧ��v�A���?��Ձf\�F^�&Z��@lz��/�b�d�ئ�a�:�NU-���W(��K!Y%����S�������Q���(EڍL    Z�J���A�LN}�^�=#8�7V��mM�n�n0Ga��q���n-�b�}$�/
                                         ��n~2ؙ���yN=J��V�+r@kg�Ջ_�K��~��([ Z���P���-@&��Ь'}��������Z�� ���U:��;�n�F}�MH��ڥo�I����bz��$x���1Ҿops�J���P�`h��"
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SERVER -> CLIENT: MIA2t�h`H���
                                         �����k7`"��ŧ��v�A���?��Ձf\�F^�&Z��@lz��/�b�d�ئ�a�:�NU-���W(��K!Y%����S�������Q���(EڍL    Z�J���A�LN}�^�=#8�7V��mM�n�n0Ga��q���n-�b�}$�/
                                         ��n~2ؙ���yN=J��V�+r@kg�Ջ_�K��~��([ Z���P���-@&��Ь'}��������Z�� ���U:��;�n�F}�MH��ڥo�I����bz��$x���1Ҿops�J���P�`h��
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP ERROR: QUIT command failed: MIA2t�h`H���
                                         �����k7`"��ŧ��v�A���?��Ձf\�F^�&Z��@lz��/�b�d�ئ�a�:�NU-���W(��K!Y%����S�������Q���(EڍL    Z�J���A�LN}�^�=#8�7V��mM�n�n0Ga��q���n-�b�}$�/
                                         ��n~2ؙ���yN=J��V�+r@kg�Ջ_�K��~��([ Z���P���-@&��Ь'}��������Z�� ���U:��;�n�F}�MH��ڥo�I����bz��$x���1Ҿops�J���P�`h��
2017-08-28 11:06:52    Connection: closed
2017-08-28 11:06:52    SMTP Error: Could not connect to SMTP host.
the settings i used is:
From Email: postmaster@mail.ve
Mailer: Send all WordPress emails via SMTP.
SMTP Options
These options only apply if you have chosen to send mail by SMTP above.
Host: mail.ve
Port: 587
Encryption: Use TLS encryption. This is not the same as STARTTLS. For most servers SSL is the recommended option.
Authentication: Yes: Use SMTP authentication.
Username: postmaster (i also tried postmaster@mail.ve)
Password: mypassword
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Thunder Bird settings

please note that mail.ve is on my local DNS server and i can connect to it from the webserver (WP's server) using thunderbird and via web browser.
also i remember when i had only one server, i installed WP with iRedMail Server on the same machine and email worked without configuring anything. 
Thank you